It’s been a while since my last post (though I do have a few drafts that should be with you soon), and I’ve returned with a doozy of a conversation starter. Or perhaps ultimate stopper, it really depends on who your audience is.
I’m going to assume the sqeemish have not clicked on a title that includes the words menstrual cup but just in case, this post will be a whole new level of personal so, you know, consider yourself warned. Procced with caution, etc etc
I’ve been reading so many things lately where women refer to their diva cup. Eventually I grew frustrated trying to figure out just what this contraption was. In short, a cup. A cup that sits inside your vagina and does nothing but catch blood.
Eeeeewwwwww.
So why the hell are people doing this?! You could argue it’s environmentaly friendly as the cup is reusable, as opossed to pads, tampons and their accompanying plastic wrappers. But I’m just not that good enough a person, I need a little more reason than it being good for the planet to try something with such a high ick factor. But wait, just like ginsu knives, there’s more!
Depending on your particular flow, you can go up to 12 hours before having to empty said cup. SOLD!! My periods are bloody awful (see what I did there?) Pads are stinky, uncomfortable and can move, thus becoming completely ineffective. And tampons need to be changed every few hours, you can’t sleep in them unless you want to wake up and change it in the middle of the night, TSS, and as an added bonus for your lady bits; they hurt like seven kinds of hell if you have to pull one out while it’s still dry. Seriously, that’s made me cry before…
So why was I still so opposed to what seemed like the perfect solution? Haha I’m not!
I ordered a cheap one online to try, $15 dollars and 2 days later it arrived just in time for shark week. I sterilized this weird looking silicone thing, then shut myself in the bathroom with the instruction book. I figured after pushing out 2 kids it’d be a piece of cake to jam this thing up there, despite reading hundreds of reviews saying it’s hard at first. And I was right! A pretty relaxed attitude to my vagina helped, I imagine if you were tense about the whole thing it’d be a different story. 5 minutes later I emerged from the bathroom feeling pretty damn proud of myself. I was a little uncomfortable but I figured that was normal as I’m the same for a few minutes after inserting a tampon. About 5 minutes later I was still very aware that there was something annoying going on in my business. Another trip to the bathroom where I cut the stem (think like the string of a tampon) shorter, jammed it back up there and bam! Good to go.
I’m insanely comfortable right now. Normally I’d be getting super pissed off at an uncomfortable pad, or worrying about when to change tampons before I leaked everywhere. And I’m actually excited to go to bed, on my period, WITHOUT A HUGE FREAKING PAD! Seriously, I don’t have words to describe how much I hate that.
Fingers crossed my cup experience continues so positively! I’ll update this when Aunt Flo is done visiting.
**UPDATE**
So, despite being strangely excited about this period and the chance to try my new cup, my body took a while to get on board. Somehow every time I tried to use the cup my fricking flow would stop. So when I went to empty it and there was nothing there, I’d give up, wait for it to start again again and give it another go. After 3 days of this my body finally got the message and so far, I have to say, this is the best thing ever! Ah menstrual cup, shall I list the ways I love thee?
First off, having it in when there was no blood? If that had been a tampon I would’ve had to pull that sucker out completely dry. Menstrual cup? No worries? It’s safe to have it in and it doesn’t dry you out like tampons. So actually perfect, if your out and know you might suddenly start gushing like Niagara falls, you can do a preemptive strike against nature and wear the cup in case.
No leaks: Like, absolutley ZERO leaks. I’ve had two heavy days so far, days where I’d be blowing through a tampon or pad in about 3 hours, probably forgetting to check often enough and end up overflowing plus, definitely waking up with a pad that’s migrated to my leg and bloody underwear. Which brings me to my next point…
Sleeping was sooooo comfortable. I’m one of those horrible people that toss and turn and throw limbs around left right and centre until I’m somehow occupying 90% of the bed and my poor husband is left curled up in the tiny triangle of space made by one of my arms, one of my legs, and the edge of the bed. This guarantees that a pad will not stay in it’s intended place, and tampons aren’t a go for that long. TSS or leaks. Urgh. And, I sleep naked, underwear and a pad just rubs in my face (or more accurately my hoo-ha) that for one week a month being a female equates to being frustrated and miserable. The cup has made my nights comfortable again. Empty it before I go to bed and again in the morning. In between those two times I can forget about my period. Amazing. Absolutely amazing.
I’ve been emptying the cup roughly every 4-5 hours during the day and so far the fullest it’s been is a tiny bit over the halfway mark. On a lighter day I can definitely see going 12 hours. I was expecting such a learning curve and am so happy that this experience has been just ridiculously easy for me. 100% satisfied with my cup. I’m pleased to say I’ll be saying f*** you to tampons and pads from now on.
Menstrual cup? No. Menstrual holy grail.